Category Archives: Life & Love

Sometimes things just need to move – figuratively and physically. I’ve found this to be the case on especially long weekends when maybe I haven’t been as busy or my mind seems to be in overpower mode, churning and churning. The longer I piddle around in my apartment or sit on the couch and stare…

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Thank you. I mean it. Thank you for breaking my heart. I’m not going to say it was fun or by any means easy. But it was necessary. Without you breaking my heart, I would not be where I am. I would not be the strong, independent woman that I am now. Did you know…

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I proclaim this here and now: I do not want to fall in love until I don’t feel like I need it. If I desperately feel a deep need to be loved, I don’t think it is the right kind of love. If I feel the NEED for love, what am I really looking for?…

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Almost unbeknownst to be, my goal of life for a long time was to find a spouse – or at least a man. It started in third grade with my little boy crushes that never seemed to end. There was another boy each year that consumed my thoughts and it was a goal (although I…

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I used to be married, in a home, with babies on the brain. Then I lost it all: the husband, the home, and the baby fever. I was a single, divorced woman whose life had just been changed in almost every way. I moved into my first apartment all on my own at age 27….

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