In this new little place I call home, I’ve been letting myself ease into the unpacking part of moving.

Some things came first:

Organizing my closet so I could get dressed easily in the morning and get to work on time.

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Finding my linens and making my bed so I could sleep.

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Organizing the kitchen so I could feed myself.

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Unearthing enough bathroom supplies so I could stay clean.

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However, other things I’ve let go at a slower pace. I’ve done this for two reasons.

Reason #1: I want to unpack with purpose so it goes into its place organized.

I don’t want to put things behind closed doors or under beds or into containers just so it is out-of-the-way. Actually, I want to unpack quite the opposite.

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See, if things are sitting around and out-of-place, it bugs me. I want everything to have its place – but not only have a place but have its right place. A place that makes sense to me. A place that is organized. Not just a place that is hidden. That’s not really unpacked to me.

So when it takes me 6 hours to organize the kitchen, I’m okay with that. Because everything has its right place – with a pretty lining underneath. That makes me feel better than setting the record for unpacking an apartment.

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Reason #2: I want to observe how I live in this space and let that dictate where I put things.

Sometimes that means putting off buying things or unpacking things for a while to allow yourself to observe how you are functioning in the space. Where do you really reach when you get your drinking glasses? What side of the shower do you really get in on so you know where to put your conditioner (meaning not knocking it off the side of the tub every time you step in)?

Watching how you live can make your life easier – and you won’t have to reorganize a few weeks in.

Another positive about watching how you live in a house is that it can actually save you money.

For example, I came from a house with a trash compactor so I didn’t have a trash can to bring with me. I put off buying one because they are just so darn expensive. Plus, I wasn’t exactly sure the style and size I wanted. So I decided to just use a plastic grocery bag until I figured out what I wanted. Turns out, I would be SO MAD if I had bought the tall stainless one I had been contemplating. I don’t want to look at my trash can all day long. Floor space is too valuable in this place. I would rather have a small under the sink one. For one person living here and a dumpster in the parking lot (meaning I can take the trash out daily, nay hourly, if I want to) there was no need to buy a huge one that would take up too much room. So now I know I can spend $7 on a small, white plastic one and be perfectly content.

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So Little Miss Organization here is actually preaching that it’s okay to stay a little messy for a little longer. Yup, keep those boxes around until you’re feeling comfortable about unpacking with purpose!

  • I love this!! I am notorious for rushing things, so this is great insight into a much better process =) Love that you’re making such an intentional, purpose-filled home!ReplyCancel

    • Thanks so much Carrie! I’m trying to do everything with purpose and intention right now.ReplyCancel

  • I think you are so smart to get things exactly like you want them instead of rushing through your unpacking and then having to reorganize later.

    I hate having a trash can sitting out and would much rather have it hidden like you are doing.ReplyCancel

    • Thank you, Paula! It’s definitely an enjoyable process for me. I just can’t take tooooo long or it starts to bug me. And I agree about the trash can! Let’s get those outta sight!ReplyCancel

My heart has grown at least 10 times bigger since my last post. Oh my goodness, you wonderful friends out there. I love you so much. Thank you for your overwhelming messages of love and support. You sure know how to buoy a girl. I’m sending you all giant bear hugs.

Anywho, now that you know my news, I can share with you my new apartment. This place already gives me so many happy, peaceful, cozy vibes. I actually just moved last Friday so there is quite a bit of settling in to do. Sometimes I feel like I am trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. But that’s the fun part, right? I definitely think so!

So before I start showing you the apartment with all my stuff in it, I thought I would show you the blank state that it was the first day I got my keys.

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Here goes the grand (ha!) tour of my little place that I feel lucky to call home.

Living Room / Dining Room / Kitchen

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My Empty Apartment Tour | www.rhapsodyinrooms.com

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My Empty Apartment Tour | www.rhapsodyinrooms.com

Porch

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Den / Studio

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Bathroom

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Bedroom

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Laundry Room

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It’s older. Nothing fancy. Finishes that I wouldn’t pick. Has brown carpet. But I FRIGGIN LOVE THIS PLACE. This is my place. All mine. I can do what I want (within the constraints of my lease that is) and it is what I make it. I am going to love the heck outta this place and make it warm, inviting, cozy, beautiful, light, pretty, and colorful. I am going to fill it up with everything that makes this place feel like a home. Cause stuff is stuff but it’s the feeling you bring to your home that matters.

So now that you’ve seen it empty, let’s get this party started! I can’t wait to show you what I’ve got up my sleeve!

PS – Confused as to why I moved or why my blog name has changed? Read this post to understand what’s happening in my life.

  • Celia

    Ok, here is the mom in me coming out. 1. Don’t ever leave your purse on the floor (dirt & bad karma) get a purse hanger or put on a doorknob, hook, chair. Lol 2. Add a deadbolt to doors & re-key your locks. Your too pretty to take a chance someone else has a copy. Put a hook eye lock on bedroom door(police told my sister in law this -she woke up w/burglar in room!). Face it you have a blog it is better to be safe than sorry. Not trying to scare you , this comes from a place of love. It is very exciting- new beginnings always are. Loooove what you do. Don’t forget there is a trick of hanging fabric with blue starch. I transformed my apt with hippie cotton wall hangings that then looked like wallpaper. I also used matching sheets to comforter set to wainscot my moms guest room. Also command hooks are your new best friend! Have fun & much love on your new direction.ReplyCancel

    • Oh Celia, thank you so much for your awesome comment! I truly appreciate everything you said and will take everything to heart! And I LOVE all those ideas with fabric! Can’t wait to try all these fun renter friendly decorating ideas!ReplyCancel

  • I can’t wait to see what you do to add your personality to this place. It looks quite roomy for one person!ReplyCancel

    • Yay! Me either! First thing is to rid it of boxes…haha! It is definitely a great size for one person! But I don’t think I would love it with two. I like my space too much!ReplyCancel

  • Looks great, fresh and inviting — much like our condo (that I still miss!). Enjoy making it your own!ReplyCancel

    • Thank you! I love the floor plan. Sounds like you did too in your condo! So good to hear!ReplyCancel

  • The apartment is so bright and welcoming! I saw what you’ve done with the space and I fell in love. It’s sometimes difficult to work with small spaces, but you’ve done an amazing job! It looks really cosy.ReplyCancel

    • Thank you so much! That means a lot to me! It is definitely still a work in progress but I am loving every second!ReplyCancel

I sit on a couch of compromise above a rug that was just never quite the rug with a red wall that’s been there the whole time that I thought I could live with. Yet, when I open my eyes a little bit wider I see I have built a life of compromise. A life of  love for someone else. A place where I am not as strong as I should be, could be. A place that is less me than it should be. A place that needs a fresh coat of paint. Because I can live with some compromise but I cannot live with the red wall.

How to make a curtain rod from an electrical conduit | www.rappsodyinrooms.comYou may think that I’m talking about the living room I’ve been rambling about here for the past few years. The living room that I could never quite get right no matter how I tried. How I thought I could love the red wall because he loved the red wall. How the couch was good for now and the rug was something for both of us – but ended up for neither of us.

But now I realize that the living room is our life. Our life that is full of compromise with a wall of something that is not quite right. But that wall cannot be taken down and the wall cannot be painted. The wall stays. It is us who have to change. Me who has to leave.

So change we will. Change for the better. Change for the stronger. Change for the possibility. Change for the future. Change for the friendship that lives on and the love that isn’t quite right.

Change for me is a blank slate. A place to be me, for me, by me, and only me. It is the time of me.

And I am ready. I am excited. I am sad. I am proud. I am buoyant. I am okay. I am open. I am embracing this blank slate of only goodness and happiness ahead.

Because there isn’t time to let what once was hold us back. There isn’t time to let past memories mar our present, our future. There isn’t time for guilt, or blame, or hard feelings. There is only time for now. For the rest of the now’s ahead of me. For the possibilities.

I feel like I am a new woman. A woman with a world ahead of me that excites, intrigues, frightens, and beckons to me. A world that is ready for this woman that I have become. I am a full, complete woman with nothing but love and goodness buffering my heart, leading me in the right way, guiding me on my path.

Because as I navigate through my life, it continually points me in directions that remind me that this life is not just for me, but what I can do for others. How I can bless wherever I go. Now is time to remember that even more. To live to my fullest potential where I am able to live, love, and lead to my best.

Now if this just seems like some garbly gook of words fraught with symbolism and hidden meaning, my point is that Eric and I are separated.

It is a decision that we have come to with great affection and good will towards each other. It is best for both of us to  live the life that we want. Yes, there will always be the memories, the good memories, that will sometimes make the present harder. But I believe in the plan, that everything happens for a reason, and that goodness never stops. That healing is immediate. That I am a whole and complete person now, with no unnecessary baggage. I go forth now lighter and free with nothing but good memories and a grateful heart. Because harboring negativity only hurts me.

For some of you this may seem sudden, you may have questions, you may be shocked. But it is the right time, and there is a right time for everything. I appreciate your concern and love but I am okay. This is all the detail that I would like to go into now and I know you will be understanding with my lack of specifics.

I just wanted to tell you here, in this little online family that I have grown, to let you know about my changes. That you will now be seeing pictures and projects in my own little apartment that I could not be more thrilled to get my hands on and make it me. All me. On to the next we go.

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Love you all so so so much.

Megan

PS – You will be seeing some changes to the layout, organization and name of the blog. Some have already begun and others will take longer to roll out (depending on how quickly I can figure out how to reroute this domain name to Rhapsody in Rooms – any help you can give me on that would be appreciated). Stick with me, I know it’s going to be great.

PPS – I’ll be going back to Megan Elizabeth Aubrey as my name. I forgot how much I love that name all together.

  • Cait

    I love you, friend! <3ReplyCancel

    • Love you right back Cait!!! Thanks for being such an amazing friend in my life!ReplyCancel

  • Hillary

    So much Love is being reflected right back to you both every moment … big hugs and big smiles for the new adventures ahead.ReplyCancel

  • Sending lots of good vibes your way.ReplyCancel

  • Oh, Megan. I am so shocked but I love your positive attitude! I am looking forward to seeing projects from your new apartment. If you want to get together sometimes, I’m a good listener. Sending you a virtual hug. (((Megan)))ReplyCancel

    • Paula – you are the best! Thanks you for your amazing virtual hug! And yes – I will definitely take you up on a get together…especially when I figure out what I need for my new place. I see thrifting in our future!ReplyCancel

  • wow, megan- you are strong and amazing and will do wonderful things and own your life completely. wishing you all the best.ReplyCancel

    • Cassie – thank you so much for your wonderful words of encouragement. I deeply appreciate it!

      PS – This is why I’ve been terrible at getting back to you about the race. Life will be settled down more after this weekend so I hope to be able to have some time to spend on that!ReplyCancel

  • Jill

    Such a well written post! Hang in there Megan and if you need anything you know where to find me!ReplyCancel

  • You are such a strong, vibrant woman and I admire your honesty and openness. I’m excited to see what you do in your own new space. All my best and hugs 🙂ReplyCancel

    • Thank you so much Leslie. I so appreciate your kind words and support!ReplyCancel

  • Susette

    Wow! Wow! is all I can say. That was beautifully written. Your positive attitude and sense of wonder will take you far. I hope you get everything in life you wish for. I’m always here for you!ReplyCancel

  • Wow…my first inclination is to say “I’m sorry” but the way you wrote it was simply beautiful.

    Do what you have to do. Know you’re loved and supported all the way 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Big hugs and you have such a great attitude about everything. I know you will do amazing things. Looking forward to seeing what you do with the new place!ReplyCancel

    • Thank you for your hugs Jena! Can’t wait to dig into new projects in a new place! Silver lining perhaps?!ReplyCancel

  • Anita O.

    Megan,

    I am proud of you and how you have handled this whole messy chapter of your life. You have shown courage, strength and willingness to face the unknown. I believe that you will be the one to come out on the other side a stronger and better person. I’m glad to share a little corner of the world with you ❤️ReplyCancel

    • Oh Anita, thank you SO much for your heartfelt words. You rock! So glad to share a little corner of the world with you too!ReplyCancel

  • Megan, sending you hugs and prayers for the journey ahead. xoReplyCancel

  • I’m so sorry to hear this Megan! But I wish you all the best with what lies ahead and what the future has in store for you.
    xoxo
    NancyReplyCancel

  • Gifty

    Megan, I have not known anybody more complete than you! The basics of who you are will carry you through and don’t forget your Father Mother God is always listening! Giant bear hugs right back 🙂ReplyCancel

    • Gifty, thank you so much for your kind words. I am so honored. Thank you, thank you, thank you.ReplyCancel

Finally, I’m back with an easy but high impact DIY project for you! This is actually one that I made over two months ago but life has been so hectic that I’m finally getting around to sharing it with you!

It all started with the idea of carving out more space on the back porch for people to grab a seat when there was a party or cookout. Looking around, I saw the space behind the sun room offered the perfect space – but it was  little narrow. The perfect solution was a bench! Since I wanted a very specific size, I knew that I could cook something up myself (especially when I saw this tutorial on The Apron Blog).

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It’s amazing how simple making a bench really is. It requires only limited supplies and a few easy power tools. And boom, bench made. Here’s how I made this easy DIY outdoor bench!

Supplies:

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Directions:

1. Gather all your supplies. While shopping, make sure to have your board cut to the length you want. This makes your job easier and transportation a whole lot easier too.

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2. Sand down the board. I like to really pay attention to the edges, smoothing and rounding them so no errant slivers make their way into my uber sensitive skin.

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How to Make an Easy DIY Bench | www.rappsodyinrooms.com

3. Pick which side you want as top and bottom. Flip the bottom up and measure where you want to have the legs. Using the heavy top plates (and screws that came with them), mark where you want the screws, drill a pilot hole and then screw in the top plates. Once all the top plates are screwed in, all you have to do is screw in the legs.

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How to Make an Easy DIY Bench | www.rappsodyinrooms.com

4. Flip it over and you have a great, customized bench! Now you just have to decide how you want to finish it, whether you stain or paint it. Mine is still unfinished now and I’m uncertain of its future but that’s the beauty of it. I can make it however I want to!

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How to Make an Easy DIY Bench | www.rappsodyinrooms.com

How to Make an Easy DIY Bench | www.rappsodyinrooms.com

How to Make an Easy DIY Bench | www.rappsodyinrooms.com

Don’t you just love a pretty quick and easy DIY that gives you a functional result with a high impact?! Plus, it makes me feel all cool and like I am a woodworker now. But let’s be real, I’ve got a long way to go and that’s okay with me.

Have you dabbled with any woodworking? I’d love to hear what you’ve made!

  • What a great way to add seating to your deck. I like the simplicity of this bench and the fact that it doesn’t take up much valuable floor space. I see a bright color for its future!ReplyCancel

Hurray and happy Friday! I am so excited for a weekend full of fun friends, a little sample sale shopping, and a heartbreaking, cry-your-eyes out movie. Yup, sounds like my kind of weekend (and yes, the movie I am referring to is of course the new Nicholas Sparks movie).

I am also so excited to share with you my latest Hometalk segment on TV. This time I went to a new station in Richmond. I was thrilled to be a part of Virginia This Morning on CBS.

My appearance on Virginia This Morning on CBS for Hometalk | www.rappsodyinrooms.com

Let me tell you – these hosts are a BLAST. The host I did my segment with was hilarious – and adorable in his apron. We had a grand – and messy – seven minutes of live TV.

This segment was all about fall decor. I showed them these fun projects:

The host was all about getting messy, so we had fun making a Plaster of Paris mixture and dipping gourds. I also feel like I should apologize for my dull scissors I brought. Ha! You’ll see what I mean when you see him try to hack through the sweater.

With no further ado, enjoy my newest segment!

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If you’re interested in watching more of my Hometalk appearance and other videos, make sure to check out my YouTube page!

Hope you have a happy and fun-filled weekend!!

  • Congratulations on finding a new market for your content! I’m amazed that you traveled all the way to Richmond and I look forward to hearing more about it.

    Are you J. Crew shopping this weekend? We are hitting the chili festival in Sedalia.ReplyCancel

    • Thank you so much, Paula! It was so fun to spend some time in Richmond and spread the DIY love there (not that they don’t have a ton already)!

      Yes, my friend and I are hitting up the warehouse sample sale on Saturday. Have fun at the chili festival in Sedalia! I hear it is always a good time!ReplyCancel

  • Oh, my gosh, this was so much fun and I picked up some cool ideas for my own blog, Crafts a la Mode. Thanks so much, Megan!ReplyCancel

    • Thank you so much Linda! Thank you for visiting – and love your blog!ReplyCancel